Gikawatan ug celpun among mahal na kaibigan na c angel ganina..bwct jud..maka irita..napaniwala mi sa yawa na kawatan na ibalik pa niya ang celphne..gina sumpa jud nako xa! akalain niyo ba nmn na gidagan nmo ug mga 5mins lang from spc to mall..tapos linte xa..gipasaka pa mi ug fudcourt..4th floor!!!!!!!..buxet xa..traffic pa jud au kay sabado..daghan mga tao..tapos nagtel napd xa na sa mcdo na lang daw, ug padulong na daw CLA..ang mga amaw, nagpa ilad pud..mura mig mga abnormal nagdagan2 sa mol..unya wla ra diay xa..4 xur nagkatawa2 ra xa karon..bwct xa..
Ang makalagot lang jud ba, kung mangawat gani..patya na daun ang phone! di na tubag tubagon ha! para maxur2 na daun namo na gikawat na jud..dili ng gitagaan pa kunuhay mi ug hope na makuha pa nmo..linte! kalami mangumot ug nawng..madakpan lang lage ka, nah..imong itlog jud akong unahon ug sipa RUBEN!!!!!!!..kung mao man jud na imong name..buxet ka..proud pa keu ka itel imong name..kalagot na lang jud..
Isa pd sa nagpalagot sa ako kay sa kadaghan2 ug kawatan sa tbuok kalibutan, c angel pa jud..c angel n naay sakit sa hart..daghan problema sa skul..labi na sa pamilya ug kwarta...bwesit..wla na lang jud ka nluoy RUBEN..bisan unsa pa imong reason kay di jud nako matanggap bisan muingon pa kag mamatay na imong anak sa hospital kung wla kay kwrta o di ka kakaon kung di nimo kawaton 2ng celphone..kay nandamay pa ka ug lain na kelngan pd ang kwarta..kung pde lang lge mangulata sa txt ba..bahala na ang GNOO sa imo..unta lang pas2 muabot ang karma sa imo..maputlan ta kag kamot ug baba para ma fil nmo unsay na fil nmo ganina..la ka kblo kung pila ka months gipagtrabahuan sa papa ni angel 2ng cellphne na 2..
Lord, kaw na jud bahala sa iya..labi na kay angel..
OO nga pala..may nakalimutan ako..may nangyari pla kanina na nagpa kulo ng aking dugo..ako no, ma pride man ko na tao pero naa sa lugar..open minded mang gd ko, ginahuna2 sa nako maau akong mga actions bago nko ipairal akong pride pero ambot nganong ang uban kay wlay paki...super close minded au..dili lang close, naka lock pa with matching lansang sa sides..haaay..makabwct..maka irita..maka hilak..maka kurog(accdg.ke kat)..nangurog jud ko..sa kalagot na jud 2..lami kaau mangumot napd ganina..since di man nko pde kumuton..so gikagat na lang nako maau akong panyo..para lang mawala ang kalagot na akong gibati..gina mis interpret mang gd tanan ba..super sensitive pd kaau..di maminaw sa reason..bsta kay suko..suko jud..duh..pag huna2 sa pd daw usahay..di tanan na panahon kay kaw tama..gamay ra au na bagay kay padakuon jud..himuon pa jud kang dautan na nuon..lain pd bya sa feeling na ha..ulaw na i refuse imong sorry..ulaw na bisan unsa nimo explain kay wla gihapon kwenta..haaaaay...pakumuta ko beh..1 tym lang..
Dealing Effectively with Closed-Minded People
Closed-minded people are everywhere. It could be your elderly uncle, your neighbor of 15 years, or even your boss. You know them by the way they’re totally unreceptive to new ideas or other people’s arguments. It doesn’t matter the topic; they know best.
It goes without saying that having to be around a closed-minded person can be a challenge.
A Chinese proverb describes it nicely: “A closed mind is like a closed book: just a block of wood.”
Perhaps you have lost count of the number of arguments you have tried to place before your closed-minded acquaintance -- all carefully thought out, logical and, you thought, impossible to deny. Yet, time and time again, your acquaintance refused to hear you out.
A Chinese proverb describes it nicely: “A closed mind is like a closed book: just a block of wood.”
Perhaps you have lost count of the number of arguments you have tried to place before your closed-minded acquaintance -- all carefully thought out, logical and, you thought, impossible to deny. Yet, time and time again, your acquaintance refused to hear you out.
Frustrating? Yes.
Productive? Absolutely not, because, try as you might, you will not be able to broaden their horizons by trying to change them. Rather, what is needed is acceptance.
“The best way to not be affected by what another person believes is to allow them to be the way they are,” says Hale Dwoskin, CEO and director of training of Sedona Training Associates. “If you try and change them they need to defend their position and will only close down more.”
As you let go of resisting them and wanting to change them you will find yourself naturally accepting them as they are, Dwoskin points out. And letting go is something that’s easy to do when you learn The Sedona Method.
“Letting go of your resistance allows you to go on with your life and not get as hooked into the dynamic between the two of you,” Dwoskin says. “This also creates more space for them to be different with you even if they are still closed with others.”
“Remember, as you release,” he says, “do it for you to feel happier and more at ease within yourself rather than trying to force them to change.”
At the same time, realize that ultimately it doesn’t matter who is right or who is wrong. And by the very act of trying to make your acquaintance see your point of view, aren’t you being a bit closed-minded yourself?
The path to peace is, therefore, not about how to make a closed mind more open. It’s about accepting people the way they are, and letting go of any frustrations that may cause within you.
Na enlighten na ko..oo nga..wla na koy mahimo kung ing-ana xa..tanggapon na lang jud nako..unsaon pa man daw? ana man jud..so be it..pero unta ma open2 pd na gmay ng mind n na ui..haaay..
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